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How to Overcome Perfectionism at Work (10 Simple Steps)

By Demir & Carey Bentley · September 18, 2019 · 11 min read

How to Overcome Perfectionism at Work (10 Simple Steps)

Is your perfectionism secretly sabotaging your career?

If so, this is the post for you. 

Because here's the truth: While many wear perfectionism like a badge of honor, studies reveal it actually reduces productivity, crushes creativity, and leads to significantly higher rates of burnout and mental health challenges.

But there's good news.

In today's guide, I'm going to show you exactly how to break free from perfectionism at work (without sacrificing quality) using 10 science-backed strategies that have helped thousands of our Lifehack Method clients transform their relationship with work.

Let's dive in.

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Who am I? I'm Demir Bentley, co-founder of Lifehack Method and author of the WSJ bestseller Winning the Week. After burning out in a high-pressure career, I reinvented my lives and created a system that’s helped 50,000+ professionals at companies like Google, Uber, and PepsiCo work less and achieve more. Learn more here.

Key takeaways: 

Ready to transform your productivity? Here’s what we’ll cover: 

Table of contents: How to overcome perfectionism at work: 

  1. Recognize your perfectionism
  2. Set realistic standards
  3. Challenge your thinking
  4. Prioritize the right tasks
  5. Learn to delegate responsibilities
  6. Have self-compassion
  7. Establish boundaries
  8. Ask for feedback
  9. Set time limits
  10. Build a support system

Let’s start by understanding WHY you struggle with perfectionism. The answer might surprise you…

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What are the root causes of perfectionism at work? 

Perfectionism isn't about doing excellent work—it's about setting impossibly high standards that no human could consistently meet.

At its core, workplace perfectionism is defined as:

The persistent pursuit of flawlessness, accompanied by critical self-evaluations and concern about others' evaluations.

But according to studies, perfectionism is linked with depression, burnout, and anxiety. And it can actually lead to lower productivity and decreased career success over time. 

So, how do you know whether you’re striving too hard for perfection at work? 

Let me break this down…

What does perfectionism at work look like? 

What workplace perfectionism IS:

What workplace perfectionism is NOT:

See the difference?

Here are a few indicators that you might be a perfectionist at work:

What are the different types of perfectionism? 

Psychologists typically describe three types of perfectionism: 

Unfortunately, studies show that all three types have been on the rise in recent years. 

Furthermore, many people experience a mix of two or three types at once — and that’s a combination that can intensify the negative consequences of each. 

Let’s take a look at those consequences next. 

What does perfectionism at work lead to? 

Perfectionism at work can and does have positive effects for some people. 

For example, perfectionism may help you: 

However, for most people, the negative consequences far outweigh the potential benefits.

For instance, research shows that perfectionism tends to hinder creativity, inspiration, and productivity. 

At the same time, perfectionists face higher levels of: 

With that in mind, it’s no wonder that successful people are actually less likely to be perfectionists. 

So, are you ready to bid farewell to the constant search for perfection? 

In the next section, I’ll show you how. 

10 tips to overcome perfectionism 

Before we get into the strategies, know this: Overcoming perfectionism at work can be a real challenge. 

That’s because it’s SO deeply ingrained into our culture, and, in turn, our individual lives. 

But don’t worry — I’ve been in your shoes. 

Back when I was working on Wall Street, I was convinced that working harder (and longer) than anyone else was the key to success. 

Long story short, it landed me in a hospital bed, and I was forced to rethink my approach to work. 

One of the most important things I learned was to embrace imperfection

Let’s look at how you can do the same. 

1. Recognize your perfectionism

As I mentioned earlier, the root causes of perfectionism vary. 

Something that might trigger you to work at 200% may feel like a minor matter to your colleague, and vice versa. 

That’s why my first tip is to take a close look at your approach to work and identify the areas where your perfectionism is taking control

For example, did you spend 3 hours on a task that could’ve been completed in 30 minutes?  

Did you put off an important project because you’re afraid of the feedback you might receive? 

Simply asking questions like these (and being honest with your answers) is a great way to initiate the change you’re looking for. 

2. Set realistic standards

Here are some words of wisdom: Perfection doesn’t exist. 

So, instead of aiming for perfection and then feeling disappointed no matter what, focus on being realistic

A great way to do that is by developing goals that are S.M.A.R.T.

SMART goals

Once you’ve outlined S.M.A.R.T. goals, you can set realistic standards accordingly. 

Then comes the hard part: Stick to your new standards!

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3. Challenge your thinking

A huge part of overcoming perfectionism at work is countering the limiting mindsets that encourage it. 

For instance, many perfectionists have adopted an all-or-nothing mindset. They often convince themselves that there’s only one ideal solution to a problem

Then, if that solution doesn’t work out, it feels like a total failure. Can you relate to that feeling? 

👉🏻Here’s another way to look at things:

Life itself is chaotic and unpredictable. It’s imperfect — and it’s not going to sync up with your idea of the one perfect path to success. 

The good news is that there are many imperfect paths you can take to reach the same destination. 

So choose one, and focus on the positive progress you’re making along the way. 

4. Prioritize the right tasks

As a perfectionist, you probably have a nearly endless to-do list.

If it’s exhausting, I can imagine why: You’re trying to take on every task thrown your way and give each one your full attention. 

🚨It’s time to reassess and reorganize your priorities

My favorite way to prioritize is the Eisenhower Matrix

Basically, you divide up your to-do list into these four quadrants: 

  1. Do First: For tasks that are both urgent and important.
  2. Schedule: For tasks that are important but not so urgent. 
  3. Delegate: For tasks that are urgent but less important. 
  4. Delete: For tasks that aren’t urgent or important. 
Eisenhower Matrix

By doing this, you’ll be able to clearly see what needs your attention and — crucially for perfectionists — what doesn’t.

👉🏻Next up: What to do with the less important tasks.  

5. Learn to delegate responsibilities

Perfectionists often believe they’ve got to do a job themselves or it simply won’t be done right. 

But that’s another one of those mindsets that isn’t doing you any favors.

The truth is that others can help you out, especially with less crucial tasks. You’ve just got to learn how to delegate (or outsource) properly. 

Delegation is a skill itself and — trust me – once you’ve mastered it, you’ll be wishing you had started long ago. 

When delegating, make sure to include the following:

  1. ✔️Clear, step-by-step instructions 
  2. ✔️An idea of what success looks like
  3. ✔️An approximation of how long the task should take

For more on how to delegate like a pro, check out this video we made:

6. Have self-compassion

News flash: We all make mistakes. It’s part of being human!

So there’s no need to beat yourself up over every mistake. 

Think about it this way: If your friend told you about an error they made at work, you wouldn’t call them a failure, right?

Instead, you’d probably say something like “You did your best” or “You’ll get it right next time.”

Treat yourself the same way. Practice self-compassion

Try to view each mistake or imperfection as a stepping stone toward better results in the future. 

By focusing on growth instead of failure, you can build resilience, boost your overall well-being, and reduce stress

7. Establish boundaries

Boundaries are like your personal armor. They protect your precious time and energy so that you can focus on your priorities.

Some of the most important boundaries for perfectionists include: 

Consider which boundaries you need based on the root causes and triggers of your perfectionism that we discussed earlier. 

💡And remember this: If you don’t set boundaries yourself, others will do it for you. 

8. Ask for feedback

Learning to embrace feedback is a great way to overcome perfectionism at work.

That’s because it helps you get out of your head and away from the limiting mindsets that keep you there. 

For example, you might find yourself agonizing over every last detail of a report, wondering if it’s good enough to submit. 

🤔The best way to find out? Just ask! 

In SO many cases, the thing you’re obsessing over won’t even register for someone else. 

Simply seeing that reality can relieve all the stress that’s been building up inside you. At the same time, they can point to areas that might actually need improvement. 

It’s a win-win! 

9. Set time limits

Spending way too much time on things is a defining feature of perfectionism. 

Luckily, we’ve got a handful of great techniques to get more done in less time.

For starters, I recommend blocking your time with these methods:

And if you want to try a fun way to boost your productivity, check out the Sticky Focus Game

10. Build a support system

Last but not least, let’s talk about support

Implementing these tips and rethinking your approach to work isn’t always easy. Sometimes, it can be really overwhelming and even intimidating. 

That’s why we created Lifehack Tribe

It’s an online community of like-minded people who share the goals of boosting productivity, saving time, and improving their lives

Using the Lifehack Method, we focus on simple step-by-step solutions to challenges like overcoming perfectionism. 

🤝We’ll help you make a plan — and then we’ll hold you to it. 

Learn more on this page

What’s next? 

Perfectionism might feel like your secret weapon, but research shows it’s more likely draining your time, energy, and creativity.

The truth? High achievers don’t strive for perfection. They focus on what actually moves the needle. 

By applying these 10 strategies, you’ll start delivering high-quality work without the burnout, second-guessing, or constant pressure to overperform.

Want to make it real this week?

Download our free Win the Week worksheet to start applying what you’ve learned. It’s helped thousands of professionals overcome perfectionism and finally focus on what matters most.

👉 Grab your worksheet now and take the first step toward a more productive, less stressful workweek: 

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